Happy day is in sight. Biting with the him in the aisle like a dream that will come true. But, as a bride you are aware that the marriage did not come up to expectations so alone.
In addition to the assistance of an outside party to perform a variety of preparations, you and he had also had a hand to help the success of D-Day. One of the many requirements is to try to be wise in many ways. What are the:
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Go flat!
Experience many brides tell how they regret not provide flat-heeled shoes high heels so I could rest, and of course their feet. Remember yes, you, the bride will long stand in the aisle to greet guests handshake queue length. Make sure you have the right to store flat under the aisle seat as an aid in the time you begin to suffer the cruel high heels. Just so you know, even when wearing heels too flat, legs can still suffer.
Have faith
Do not forget to pay attention to the music player that you rent to enliven the party. Help them by giving a limited number of requests for songs, playlists or let you know the type of music that you want or do not want them to play / sing. Too many songs will disturb them and also disrupt the proceedings. You've hired the musicians or DJ to decide when they will play what music or song.
Just as you would not set the caterer about the steps in serving food, or organize your wedding photographer about what kind of camera lenses and they should use, and angle of the photos they should take. To be sure, not too much set. Give them confidence and enjoy your party.
Remember, priority
What is the most important thing for you to hold a wedding party? Photographer? Music and dance-dansinya? Food and drink? Decorations, or buildings which are able to invite many guests? Use your money for the things you value the most important priority alias. Because if not, after a party you can just bite the fingers and regret. When you and he are not a party to finance the party, you may lose the right financial decisions. If this actually happens, you would need to make compromises on some priorities. Or if your priority is to use the best photographer, offer to the 'donor' to leave you alone who pay the cost of the photographer.
Final dress fitting
Final fitting should be no less than 1 week before the day so that if there is improvement, there is still time to do so. All you rent tuxedos that will have to be tried first, including a tuxedo for her beloved father. Although previously been measured, which usually happens is the guy always comes to a wedding with pants that are too short pipe like people flooded or pieces of underwear which larger numbers.
Be patience
The wedding day is the biggest, busiest, and most important in your life. The next day, guaranteed you will be tired after standing for hours, greet guests, and put on a smile as sweet as possible. Not to mention if a few days before you are too busy taking care of the preparation of the party involved.
The rush and push yourself to immediately berangkatT honeymoon the next day is definitely not a wise decision. Wait 1-2 days until the body back in shape and powerful. Afterwards you and he will be ready to enjoy the days (and nights of course) alone, in the place of dreams with a variety of fun activities.
Bachelor / bachelorette night
You may be mangkel reading suggestions on this one. But seriously deh, do not be desperate to hold a dinner or bachelorette party right on the night before your wedding day was held the next day. Why? Here's why: Your next day and the bridesmaids will feel tired and look sluggish. Especially if flavored with alcohol event. You definitely do not want to walk down the aisle or the aisle with eyes and dark circles decorate run oblique to the left or to the right because your balance is under the influence of alcohol.
If you still want any special event nights instead of single, ask a few close friends and relatives who live outside the city came a few days early to help you prepare and celebrate a different celebrations safer.
No guidance
Without any one person steering the party in charge, there will be too many people are in control. With the 1 person in charge of everything aka wedding coordinator, then only one person that he will also coordinate the party you like, watching the procession, music, ensuring a seat for the invitation, and was responsible solve problems that may arise unexpectedly. With the wedding coordinator, your worries can be reduced.
Get help, please ...
If you experience difficulty in planning and setting priorities, seek help. Do not make people have good intentions to help you in the initial preparation and ultimately have to bear the chores that you can not finish at the last moment.
One more thing, do not hold a social gathering events of the day before the day of the wedding will be held. The day is supposed to be the day that you use to pamper the body and beautify yourself, attend the rehearsal and dinner dirty with family and close friends. Most importantly, try to get enough rest.
High demands
Keep in mind, though the bridesmaids and men offer extra help to you, the queen or king for a day, it should not make you feel may take advantage of them. Obligations which they are responsible is in the form of moral support, exit travel expenses to attend your wedding, attended the rehearsal participation in dirty and rehearsal, as well as running their own role in the day-H later. Offer other help they pose should not be regarded as an obligation they have to do, but as a kindness.
Remember that they are willing to make every effort to attend your wedding. This could be the bridesmaids uncomfortable with the dress or jacket that you chose, tormented must stand on 10cm heels, issuing private money to buy jewelry and makeup artist hired in order to look beautiful while accompanying you. After the labors they have done for you, it would be overkill if you remember to say thank you. A tiny parcel that is very personal to them would be greatly appreciated.