You are loyal, and not betray couples, but marriage still did not go as you wish. Maybe there are some attitudes you and your partner marriage erodes your happiness.
These attitudes should be avoided in order to keep a marriage happy and running in place.
1. Disconnections between giving and receiving
When you feel too much to give, but there is no feedback from the partner, there will be a sense of disappointment. Discontinuity could erode marital happiness. Remember, a marriage based on love is a reciprocal relationship between the two men. When one just give without receiving anything at all, you can bet that the relationship will not go according keingiinan.

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2. Attitudes are dominant
Too dominant in a marriage will make the relationship a 'lame. Keep in mind that the position of you and your husband are complementary partner. If one of them too in control, even not considering the feelings and opinions of a couple. So existing relationships will be damaged.
3. lack of trust
Trust must be maintained in a marriage relationship. When trust is lost, the conflict will be more frequent. As a result of your wedding will feel like a battlefield with endless infighting.
4. manipulation
Manipulate the same as spouse cheats. Whatever the reason, it would be better if you tell the truth to the couple. Manipulating will only encourage you to lie even more.