The process of engagement, and the reception has been undertaken. Now the biggest challenge is to maintain the marriage and make a happy family. Want to know the formula?
The Know Him
While you've been running a long courtship, does not mean you do not have to recognize your partner more deeply. Pay attention to your partner again. Is he the one who made you willing to sacrifice anything for the sake of getting married and sharing your whole life with him. If yes, let's stop complaining, stop looking for faults in a mate, and shouting blame. Remember, he is the only person you want to share your marriage, your life.
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Remember your goal Married
Let's carefully again from scratch, what are your goals when intending to set foot into the world of weddings. The main reason of course because you want to spend the rest of your life in a better life with her, instead of spending the rest of your life alone. Well, if indeed such a goal you are married, then now is a good time to quickly fix yourself and achieve that goal. What matters is the happiness of both parties, not you or your spouse.
Communicating With Both
An important factor of a relationship is communication. Without proper communication and effective, you can bet you will not be able to live a good relationship with. For that, build good communication with your partner. Try setting the time for the two of you can sit back without doing anything except share stories. Ask your partner to tell you honestly. The same rule applies to you.
Complementary Wedding
You and your partner may be bored with the daily routine that is no different than the days that you passed earlier. To that end, look for hobbies, activities, or new goals to better equip your happiness. Having children, for example. Many couples after marriage are delaying having children with a reason to enjoy the time together once or focus on a career. In fact, if you're both ready mentally and materials, the presence of a child will make life more beautiful wedding. It will be a great opportunity for you and your partner increased tolerance, understanding, and cooperation. Since when has a new family member, you are both required to be a good team and share the task of caring for, raising, and educating your child.