Intimacy you and your partner's presence is reduced after the baby? Here's expert opinion on the matter.
A wedding consultant, Alisa Bowman, explaining that after the baby comes, will arise 'hierarchy of love'. Hierarchy is a healthy love Daddy loves herself, she loves herself, mom and dad love each other, and fathers and mothers love their children.
Unfortunately, according to Alisa, hierarchy is often wrong. The most common is the mother too focused attention to her, so that her father is no longer ignored. If one of the parties no longer get the love it should, then according to Alisa as quoted from She Knows, the relationships within the family was no longer running perfectly.
To explain why the hierarchy is subject to change, Alisa also makes the analogy of the word love. Here's the analogy.
'Love' as a noun
Alisa believes many are confused between 'love' as a verb or object. If seen 'Love' as a noun, what the mother to her child is not wrong. Instinctive love for the mother of his son, according to Alisa makes women unable to resist bullets to protect her baby. But when the bullets endanger husband husbands, women need to think many times to sacrifice himself. According to Alisa, it's because the mothers consider their children should be protected, while the husband did not need protection from him.
'Love' as a verb
When love is placed as a verb, the situation is different. Love is seuah action should be disclosed. Whether it's a child or a husband. Loves kids, does not mean you love your husband aside.
For that Allisa asked the woman to put the word 'love' as a noun is also a verb. Loving and attentive husband also indirectly you keep the love of the baby.
If you as a mother is able to maintain the integrity of the home, then your baby will happily raised by two parents who love each other.
A wedding consultant, Alisa Bowman, explaining that after the baby comes, will arise 'hierarchy of love'. Hierarchy is a healthy love Daddy loves herself, she loves herself, mom and dad love each other, and fathers and mothers love their children.
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Unfortunately, according to Alisa, hierarchy is often wrong. The most common is the mother too focused attention to her, so that her father is no longer ignored. If one of the parties no longer get the love it should, then according to Alisa as quoted from She Knows, the relationships within the family was no longer running perfectly.
To explain why the hierarchy is subject to change, Alisa also makes the analogy of the word love. Here's the analogy.
'Love' as a noun
Alisa believes many are confused between 'love' as a verb or object. If seen 'Love' as a noun, what the mother to her child is not wrong. Instinctive love for the mother of his son, according to Alisa makes women unable to resist bullets to protect her baby. But when the bullets endanger husband husbands, women need to think many times to sacrifice himself. According to Alisa, it's because the mothers consider their children should be protected, while the husband did not need protection from him.
'Love' as a verb
When love is placed as a verb, the situation is different. Love is seuah action should be disclosed. Whether it's a child or a husband. Loves kids, does not mean you love your husband aside.
For that Allisa asked the woman to put the word 'love' as a noun is also a verb. Loving and attentive husband also indirectly you keep the love of the baby.
If you as a mother is able to maintain the integrity of the home, then your baby will happily raised by two parents who love each other.