A marriage that runs smoothly and successfully is often inseparable from the presence of a wedding planner or wedding planner. Not infrequently, wedding planner considered a friend, mediator and unifier prospective bride and her family.
Preparing for a wedding is very important. Anyone would want the best wedding in her life. However, sometimes the busy bride make they do not have enough time to take care of their own marriage.
The lack of knowledge of the wedding preparations and so make a wedding planner services become a necessity. Even now wedding planner job is no longer just a mere extension of the prospective bride. But to help facilitate and create a most memorable wedding for the bride and family. And certainly wowed the guests in attendance.
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Relieve Prospective Bride
Using the services of a wedding planner is not a necessity. But with the passing of time and the development of future services, wedding planner increasingly necessary as it can ease the burden of the prospective bride.
There are some roles and tasks to be run by a wedding planner:
1. Planners, providing suggestions and feedback about the concept of the show, cost, venue, vendors such as decorations, photo and video, sound system, lighting systems, special effects, multi-media, MCs, dancers and other performers that suit their needs and bride desires.
2. As a coordinator, which is coordinating all parties involved in the wedding, from the bride, family, venues, vendors and performers, including scheduling meetings, technical meetings, and rehearsals.
3. Make the event as a whole rundown and form professional crew to set the course of the wedding from preparation, rehearsal, until the event is over.
Friend or Assistant?
Wedding planner must be able to manage the bride wedding organizer who became clients. "If the international marriage, the committee just a few. Then the traditional wedding is usually the family, relatives and siblings mempelailah two candidates who will be the committee," said Hendri Gie, owner of The Wine Wedding Planner. This will make the task becomes more complicated wedding planner wedding planner to remember if any of the family position in the committee, it will be worse result. It could, canceled the bride to the altar.
Problems that arise in managing the family committee is usually a different color space, color of shirt, site selection, custom what to wear, who first greeted by the guests and so on. "If there is one party that finance larger, or their families have a high position, it could be that party who asks first greeted by the guests," said the man who is often called Gie.
The wedding planner can be a mediator and unifier for two family bride to be united in a bond of marriage. To become a mediator and unifier is not easy. It takes skill and time to fly so that a wedding planner can solve problems that arise in managing the family committee.
Gie has specific tips that can be immediately resolved the problem. First, do not position the wedding planner as a family or a subordinate committee assistant bride. Make your wedding planner as a friend or friends. Second, make the two families are aware that a wedding planner to better understand and master the ins and outs of both traditional and international marriage so that it can be trusted to make a desirable wedding bride and family.
Wedding planner should explain the things that are important in a marriage procession, if the bride family meeting each party do not understand in detail what his son's wedding procession. However, keep in mind. When talking to the family gathering, wedding planner must show that he understood, but did not seem patronizing. The position of "tug" the wedding planner with the bride and family while running a lot but it will eventually arrive at the meeting point.
Reduce Costs That Do not Need
Task wedding planner that is not less important is to help save expenses bride. For example, calculation of food the guests present to be precise. According Gie, any place, nice hotel, or function hall, restaurant and catering for the home, has its share of different food for one person. Therefore, the wedding planner should have statistics every place that would be a place to hold a wedding.
If the calculation of proper food portions, no less, and if not too much excess, then the bride and guests will feel comfortable. Thus, if the part of the prospective bride has limited funds, it is better discussed with the wedding planner. The goal, in order to create the perfect wedding atmosphere while costs jor-rod. What matters is the atmosphere of the wedding.
The Precious Moment
A wedding would be better if the atmosphere is a good marriage up. To make your marriage great emerge, there must be intermingling with each other in a marriage, the eye contact between the bride and groom, family and guests all the attention drawn to the bride, mood music that fits with the concept, good lighting, and so on, are are expected to appear in the wedding.
Even better if you use the services of MC or singer, you should not use the MC or singer from the artists. The goal is that the attention of the guests do not split. "This is not a product launching event. So, the wedding would have been better if not using MC or singer from the artists. Who will see the wedding procession?" he half-asked.
Therefore, a wedding planner should be able to create a most precious moment, especially for the bride and the bride wants and families. The moment had to be created. However, though it was made, would be in vain if the bride can not enjoy it on the Day of H. So that the bride can enjoy, both have good mood. And that mood well bridal, wedding planner task to create a good mood bride. How, to help prepare for the wedding bride.