Not always conflict in marriage is bad. The existence of conflicts in marriage will make your relationship better.
This is evidenced by a study conducted by several experts from the University of Michigan, USA. The research was led by Ernest Harburg. Harburg and his team made 192 pair as the object of their research.
The couples were divided into four categories. The first category is a couple who are both communicating with anger.
The second and third categories are couples in which one party communicates with anger, while the fourth category are couples who restrain anger.
Interestingly, a couple who hide their anger have a mortality risk two times greater than the other.
Hamburg also explain the phenomenon. Saving anger turns to pose a physical risk to the mental well spouses. While anger sometimes it will cope with the stress experienced by each partner.
Hamburg also underlined, conflict in marriage each spouse will provoke anger. This means that the release of stress. But he cautioned, itutimbul conflicts to be resolved. Not so stressful event impingement.
So he said, each spouse also needs to learn how to communicate anger, to be a boost to the relationship.
This is evidenced by a study conducted by several experts from the University of Michigan, USA. The research was led by Ernest Harburg. Harburg and his team made 192 pair as the object of their research.
The couples were divided into four categories. The first category is a couple who are both communicating with anger.
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The second and third categories are couples in which one party communicates with anger, while the fourth category are couples who restrain anger.
Interestingly, a couple who hide their anger have a mortality risk two times greater than the other.
Hamburg also explain the phenomenon. Saving anger turns to pose a physical risk to the mental well spouses. While anger sometimes it will cope with the stress experienced by each partner.
Hamburg also underlined, conflict in marriage each spouse will provoke anger. This means that the release of stress. But he cautioned, itutimbul conflicts to be resolved. Not so stressful event impingement.
So he said, each spouse also needs to learn how to communicate anger, to be a boost to the relationship.