In every marriage, not always all go smoothly. There are several phases that usually pass by each partner.
No harm to study the phases that will be faced in order to prevent bad things that will happen later. These phases are described in a marriage as well as marriage counselor psychologist Dr. Joseph Abraham.
Honeymoon Phase
It is a phase in the early months of marriage. Including an interest in sex activities is still very active. Couple living in happiness, like in a fairy tale.
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Phase Accommodation
This phase begins around 6 months of marriage. Couple getting back to the real world where small waves wedding starts. A lot of things have to compromise between the two, but communication is the key to completing this phase well, so that an agreement can be reached.
Phase Challenge
Couples began confronted with various problems arising from their own, or a family. Expectations were too high against the couple will backfire in a marriage. In this phase, the contention will occur if the communication started to run less smoothly. Sometimes a neutral third party is needed to resolve the problem.
Phase Intersection
When the problem occurs there also can be done well and tend to lead to endless quarrels, the couple began confronted with a choice. Is marriage worth keeping or even terminated.
But sometimes faced intersection is not that bad, because of financial problems, family and so on can be overcome with a sense of understanding and good communication from both sides. Many couples consider where they must live, the future of children and so on.
Phase Reborn
This phase is the current state couples feel calm again after successfully face the challenges of life. They seemed to be reborn like a new pair. Not rare couples who deliberately 'remarries' (celebrating birthday big wedding) to celebrate the longevity of their relationship after a 'storm'.